Right now, there are thousands of people around us who all have achieved those things which they thought they will, at some point of time. Such is life and the amazing turn of events.
Now, looking at these people the nation would want to know their stories which are still hidden behind the curtains. Let us name this book as ‘Great victory’ in which we will talk about the heroes and their journey till the end. Going with the trend there will be many reading the stories and get motivated to such an extent that they will definitely try to be the next great achiever.
It is just like a rat race in which people run to see their names at least once in the list of Forbes. The 21st century is a period to celebrate and everyone wants to have fame. It’s quite common. No one wants a simple life, which is very normal to feel because we live in a materialistic world to fulfill our wants. Instant gratification is a big part of our lives nowadays.
What if someone says that these winners are nothing but a bunch of artificial humans with no real sense? It sounds offending but the truth can be pondered upon. Well, as this statement has been made therefore an explanation should be given.
Ask any of the contemporaries about their achievement and they will just say, ‘Oh, it just happened, but you need to do lot of handwork and then one day the messengers of success will definitely knock at your door. God knows the exact time to send such achievements’. This will be the only knowledge which the winners will leave for the rest of us and there will be many, who will believe this. Even we have read the famous story of Tolstoy where the shoe maker happens to meet a messenger of God and over long time, success covers him from all around.
We may love fiction, but we exist in the real world and for that some hard, rude and distorted facts would be good for the ears. But the winners will never tell you those things because they know that the readers are not at all interested in knowing the worst things that took place while achieving the success.
But over here let’s discuss some hard hitting facts behind achieving a win. Without going into too much explanation, some vital and worthy points will be hit upon.
#1 Minimal Expectations
Never expect something big at any point of your life. At every step the result of expectation will hurt and will make you feel more disheartened. This statement is a bit unusual but honestly this is the right chord for the proper tuning. Expect little and carry on with that. A big incident may happen or may not.
#2 Pre-planning does not work
There are many who love to sketch their cycle of life, which includes all the plans and programs with exact timings. Never prepare any such schedule because unpredictible things can take place at any moment. Sketching such a great plan is not really a good plan. Go with the flow, be spontaneous and if possible try to plan while you are into the flow. Planning something before and then putting it into place just don’t work. Mark the words; this is actually a part and parcel of life.
#3 Try not to be a sacrosanct
There are many who are holy in their nature. Its fine, one should not underestimate someone’s belief but never try to uphold yourself that by getting connected with god and being a holy person will bring any difference in your life. These are just boundaries which people keep within them and they are quite sentimental about it.
#4 Hard work is necessary
To fulfill your dreams and to be a winner one needs to wake up from his sleep and start working till the time he feels sleepy. This span of time is very crucial and is called the ‘dream hours’. Whatever dream a person has can be executed within that time limit with excess hard work. Then again we all go back to the state of sleeping where new dreams form up. Do stick to a single thing but don’t be a clumsy person with your hopes.
#5 Be less confident and have high overconfidence
This will be a bit hard for you all to digest but take some time and slowly try to feel the actual intention behind this statement. Being confident is a state of mind where more or less we know that this thing in not that difficult and it can be done but being an over confident makes you strongly believe that yes you can achieve it at any moment.
The difference between confident and over confident is based on two things- one is more or less and the other is quite strong. When it’s a ground for you to win a battle, so better be prepared to hear some strong things. Try to strike a balance between lesser confidence and higher overconfidence.
#6 Try to have a decent focus over a single thing
Sometimes it happens that our focus gets shifted. Due to this, the entire structure gets derailed. While we focus on a particular thing, we immediately make a structure on how to go about it. Never try to break that structure because once you break it you may not find the missing parts again.
Endnote
These are just some of the realistic ways by which your growth towards the winning line can be made better and prosperous. There will be many suggestions coming across from many other platforms like books, magazines, inspirational lectures but the actual story lies behind these above mentioned points.
Fancy talks by various big winners may inspire you immediately but in the long run it will ruin your situation. Thus make every move of yours proper and correct so that in the future there is no such correction needed. Life is definitely about winning, but slowly and steadily.
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